CHANGES!

When working on getting married there are a lot of things that are changing. When you are getting married there are changes that can affect everyone. For example when you are getting married your family has to adjust to everything as well. The biggest change would be for the parents when there little girl and or boy are coming over with someone all of the time. It just isn't there little child anymore they are growing up and loving other people. sometimes this is really hard for certain parents to adjust to because they don't want there baby to grow up. I also think that financial choices are another big change while getting married as well. They both might not always agree on what they should and should not buy. There are so many different factors that hinge on money. In my opinion this could either make or break a relationship. Like if the person in the marriage could like to spend money all of the time but the other person hates to spend money. This could cause a huge conflict and if they don't discuss the situation before getting married it could but a huge cramp in some problems that could occur later on down the road of marriage. Next I think is meshing two different life cultures into one could also be a very hard adjustment as well. There are a lot of factors that can occurs from this as well. When someone has came from a strict house hold that wants to get married to someone who came from a very calm and lax home it putting those two together could really put a stop to a relationship and or make a very hard change for both people. lets say they don't agree on a certain thing well instead of one person changing there way of doing things they need to both talk it over and make a choice on how they are going to handle a certain problem for now on so later down the road of being married a bump in the road wont effect them as much. It is always better to talk about everything before you get married because there are so many different things that could come up later on. Therefore, talking about things and making changes is the most important thing because you can choose either to talk things out and make things work or you can back out all together and not have bigger problems down the road. Another big change is living with someone else and learning to live and work around someone other then your family. Like one might like there house to be spotless and one might not care at all. Or they both have certain things and or routines that they are always used to doing so they have to make an adjustment to they way they each are doing things. Overall there are so many different things that you have to change and prepare for before and after getting married. I think if you prepare and make adjustments before getting married you will over all have a better marriage experience. Also making changes before you are married can make it a little easier for everyone because you kind of already have an idea of what's going to happen and how the cookie is going to crumble. Therefore preparing and talking things out before hand can help you get closer to the person you love and can also make you realize that they are the right person for you as well. So preparing and changing can help a person and or individual so much.