Communication

Communication with family is very important when this doesn’t happen things start to fall apart. When let’s say parents aren’t communicating very well this can cause the amounts of arguments increase. When parents are arguing more it tends to add tension to many different people with in that family. When most people in your family are stressed it tends to make the whole family relationships fade and or make them fall away as a whole family. If we communicate with in the family this keep family’s falling apart to go away. Communication is key to every relationship in our life’s. It is key for coworker, teacher, family and etc relationships. With no communication can cause a lot of miss communication with in those relationships. No matter what COMMUNICATION IS KEY TO ALL RELATIONSHIPS! With in a family and the siblings don’t communicate it can cause them to fight and or not get along with each other. But to much communication can also cause problems as well. This can cause relationships to fall apart as well. Communication isn’t all bad there are really good benefits through communication. When one individual commucates with someone ramdom it might just be the hilight of There day. You never know what people are going through until you communicate with them and if they tell you how they are really feeling. For example when I was in high school there was this kid my age that was picked on quite a bit but he never really talked or Expresses how he felt. Well one day I was skipping class…. Anyways I was walking down the hallway to leave and he was getting some stuff out of his locker and he dropped his folder and papers went all across the hallway. Well I stopped to help him pick them up. The first thing he said to me was you don’t need to help me no one does. Well i was kind of taken by suprise because normally people are thanking you for helping them. Anyways I responded by saying it’s ok I want to help you. After all the papers were picked up I asked him where he was going and he said well I was going to walk home for lunch. Well I was headed into town so I asked him if he would like to go to lunch with me. He hesitated to answer and then he said sure I’ll go. Well we went to lunch and had a good time. We went back to the school and I just carried on with my day and didn’t think anything about it. A few weeks later I receive a email from him saying “Jayda thank you for being so nice to me and for taking me to lunch it saved my life. I was planing on walking home and killing myself that day. So thank you for saving my life”. I never knew that he felt this way I just happen to be skipping class and walked down the same hallway as him. But with this story you never know what people are going through without communication and with actually having a conversation with them. Overall, Ever since that day I have made an effort to talk to everyone and make sure that i know they are doing ok. I love to communicate with people it’s just a blessing that we can communicate with each other because with out it there would be failures everywhere and relationships destroyed because of the lack of communication. We know that relationships can become stronger by seriously communication can make it a lot stronger.