Stress

What happens when there is stress in a family? I think that when there is stress within a close family the stress effects everyone. When the family has strong relationships with each other stress can effect the whole family very differently. lets say the dad of the family was going through some stuff at work and was very stressed for a while. I think it can effect the mom quite a lot as well. She has to be the person he unloads everything on to, she is the one that probably has responsibility to talk to the kids and tell them something about what is going on with dad and why he is set off so easy. When the dad is trying to get things done at home and let’s say the kid beaks something and the dad just goes off on him. Well this could be related to the stressful situation he has been going through at work and is bringing those problems home. When this happens with the family it takes a set back on the individual relationships within the home. When the parents are stressed it buts a whole different feeling throughout the home. It can be a very hard time the children to adapt to the situation and time. When the child is stressed about a test or something it doesn’t so much effect the family as much as if the parents are stressed. When the child is stressed they might act up more then normal or they might now have the best feelings towards sertian things. For example when the parent asks them to do something and they might blow up and lose there temper and dosent want to do it because they are string to study for the test. i also don’t think that it can change the whole feeling of the home and effect every family member as much as when the parents are stressed. foe example my dad is a farmer so our life’s are very stressful there are so many different problems that arise and come to the surface but no matter what the pivots need to be on and working that cows always need water and food. The farm is my family’s life and it is what makes the money we need to surviv. No mpatter what there are stressors involved everywhere in every situation. So when something really pushed my dads stress level over the edge he is way more aggressive towards certain things and he loses his cool way faster. When this happens it effects everyone because everyone is trying to do there best and make everything go smoothly and have the best day possible. I think that stress can almost be a motivator as well because when you are stressed about sertian things you can get a lot more stuff done and do it affectively. Overall stress effects everyone differently and we all have to learn to handle it in different ways. Some people might handle it so much better than others. Some people might not handle it at all and run alway From it as fast as they can as others might stand up tall and take the bull by the horns and solving the situation right then and there. No matter the problem there will be stress In everyone’s family no matter what. I thing the faster you handle the stressful situation the better the outcome you will have and the better the future it will be.