Prepare For Marriage

Preparing for marriage is quite a statement. A here is a story that I am going to share on how certain individuals did and did not prepare to get married. I went to high school with the girl and we were close friends. Boy on the other hand I did not go to high school with him but I did have one college class with him. Well, they started dating the second year of college. Well as time went on, they decided they were going to get married. Everyone was so happy and they knew that life was just too great and they loved their life. Well later on in their life some problems came out. The boy had some additions and problems that the girl didn’t really know about. Well, anyways the boys’ parents came to visit him and then as they were talking the boy slipped some information that he probably didn’t want to. Well then, he had to explain the situation to his parents. After talking with his parents, they put him in a rehab center and the girl had no idea. A few days later after going to rehab he got his one-week sober chip and now he has his one-month sober chip. Well, the girl is destroyed because she didn’t know anything about the whole situation in general or what was happing. Well now her parents are telling her that she shouldn’t marry him because of the problems he has. This is a good example of how they didn’t prepare for marriage. Well in the long run they should have been open about the problems they had because if they didn’t know about these problems and would have got married anyway there probably would have been problems longer down the road. So, it is very important that you prepare for marriage because if you decide that you aren’t ready to get married and then you are kind of in a debacle because you can’t go back and get unmar ried put then you don’t want to go through the divorce process either. So, preparing for marriage is a very important step in getting married I almost think that you should talk about getting married and how life will go before you are even engaged. When you are open about your feelings and or your problems it will help bring you and your partner closer together because you are creating that bond between both of you. When you talk about the way you feel, the kind of future you want for yourself, and how you want a mirage to work, it brings in a lot more emotions between you and your partner. There are so many other things that you and your partner should talk about before getting married because a slight hiccup could cause the marriage to blow out of the water and make things a lot harder. When things get harder between the person you love and care for it gets really hard because you don’t want to hurt them but you want to express how you feel about certain situations. Overall you as the other half of the relationship you should really have to hold up your end of the relationship by talking to your partner and really talking seriously. If you don't talk serious things may never be talked about and or they might be set aside for a while but you need to talk about those problems or they will get worse and harder to handle over time. I definitely think by doing preparing for marriage will definitely be a benefit for you and your partner.