Stepping up and Confessing

To start off I would like to say everyone opinion is a little different depending on different topics. Sexual intimacy and family life, is a huge concept that a lot of people might not tot understand. The biggest out come of this lesson is to know the importance of sexual intimacy and the impact it will have on your life. Firstly when you are growing up as a child most people dont talk about it to much it puts people in tough situations. I also think that no matter what you need to mention somethings about it to you children so that they know they shouldn’t get into that stuff when they are younger. When they are some what informed about that situation for there’re further interactions With that topic. My opinion is that even tho they know a little bit about that situation they will know what not to talk about. My next thing is that when some people participate in these activities before marriage some people tend to really judge them as a person in general. I do not agree with this because they might have made a bad session in the past but if they become open about it and they brought the problem to the surface they are willing to get past the fact that they made a mistake and they know that they need to talk to someone about it to get past the fact that they made a mistake. I feel like once a sertian person hears that someone padticipated in those activities they will think they are a terrible person and no matter how much the person changes and knows he or she did wrong they will judge and never change there mind. This is not with everyone but it is a very common problem I think. This is a really touchy subject for me because of a situation I went through. For example I was really good friends with a girl in high school, well she participated in these activities well she didn’t want to tell anymore more then me that she did this because she was scared of what others might think if they found out. Well I told her that she didn’t need to tell the whole world about it and that she just needed to talk to her bishop and her heavenly father about the situation. So as time went on she talked to her bishop to make things right. Well her bishop wanted to bring in everyone that is involve. Which my friend did not want to do that so she stopped going to church for a while, she didnt like going to church because she said that the bishop judged her for not following through the situation that he wanted her too. It was a very bad situation, because she didn’t want to resolve the problem the way her bishop did but she kept praying and still didn’t get the answer she was looking for. Well as time went on it was about three months after she walked into the bishops office. Well she finally got her answer, she went to seminary that day and a Kid started to talk about a situation he was in a while ago. Well as she was listening to his story she found her answers she needed to talk to her parents about her mistakes and tell them that she knows she made a mistake and that she knew that she needed to make things right. well she talked to her parents and they forgave her and he has been living her best life because yes she made things right resolved her problem and knew that she made the right choice. Overall I think that people in general need to know that everyone makes mistakes and some mistakes are a bit bigger then normal. We just need to know that if we forgive and forget and learn from others mistakes we will all in general be better people.